The incorrect thinking that If i’m overweight I am safe from predators.
This goes on the premise that sexual predators, sex offenders, pedophiles, are doing what they are doing out of the sexual desire to have sex. This goes on the premise that rape has anything to do with one’s sexuality, sexual needs, sexual desires or anything else Sexual. It assumes that rape has something to do with a physical and intimate attraction.
Women often believe if they are overweight that makes them feel safer, that no one would want to attack them because they are overweight. That is not true. It may feel safe but it is not.
Rape is a violent crime that is based on control and dominance period. It does not discriminate! Pedophiles don’t stop rape because a child is deemed underweight, overweight. Rapists do not avoid overweight women and only rape underweight women.
A pedophile may prefer a certain type of person but that does not mean the basis of his/her actions are not that of ultimate control. Men do not just rape with their penis. Cut the penis off and you have a thousand other objects and body parts that can be used for rape.
Don’t assume that your gender, your size, your race, or your age will protect you from a rapist. It will not.
I did not know that women believed this until recently so I thought my blog was the perfect place to address this MYTH.
Rape and molesting and crimes of those nature are crimes of violence and dominance and control.
“Comments will not be approved if they argue that rape is about the enjoyment of sex as that is not true and will not be debated.